Psychic Newsletter for www.healingmessages.com.au
Welcome to the June edition of Healing Messages.
It’s been a busy month and I have met some wonderful people with some amazing life stories. Your courage and faith have been an inspiration to me – thank you!
This month I have added a new page to the web-site called “Contact from Souls that have Passed.” This reflects the fact that a large proportion of my work is communicating with Souls who have passed over and describes what typically occurs when a loved one comes through in a reading.
I hope you all enjoy this edition and feel free to email me with comments or questions it raises.
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“How to Deal with a Negative Psychic Reading Experience?”
When you decide to see psychic for a reading, more often than not, you are seeking some guidance in your life.
You put your faith in a person you have never met, trusting that they are genuine and will honestly and compassionately relay the messages that come through for you from the other side.
So what happens if they tell you something that just doesn’t feel right or even frightens you?
Messages in a Reading should Not be frightening
In my experience the other side does not ever desire to frighten someone and also, messages that are truthful have a tendency to “feel right” to you.
Warnings
Warnings are different altogether. You may get a warning in a reading that is intended to help you. This will usually feel right, even if it is unsettling.
For example; warnings about being careful to prevent an accident or of a person/people who are not being honest or treating you right or of a business venture/decision that may be risky.
Once again, these will, on some level, feel right.
I do know of readers that have “predicted” completely false occurrences that have caused unnecessary stress and upset for their client.
Example 1
Mark decided to have a psychic reading to get some clarity about his career. The reader proceeded to tell him that his happy relationship with his wife would end very soon and he could do nothing about it.
Naturally he was extremely upset and his wife was devastated.
It turns out that this particular “psychic” was “projecting”.
When you decide to see psychic for a reading, more often than not, you are seeking some guidance in your life.
You put your faith in a person you have never met, trusting that they are genuine and will honestly and compassionately relay the messages that come through for you from the other side.
So what happens if they tell you something that just doesn’t feel right or even frightens you?
Messages in a Reading should Not be frightening
In my experience the other side does not ever desire to frighten someone and also, messages that are truthful have a tendency to “feel right” to you.
Warnings
Warnings are different altogether. You may get a warning in a reading that is intended to help you. This will usually feel right, even if it is unsettling.
For example; warnings about being careful to prevent an accident or of a person/people who are not being honest or treating you right or of a business venture/decision that may be risky.
Once again, these will, on some level, feel right.
I do know of readers that have “predicted” completely false occurrences that have caused unnecessary stress and upset for their client.
Example 1
Mark decided to have a psychic reading to get some clarity about his career. The reader proceeded to tell him that his happy relationship with his wife would end very soon and he could do nothing about it.
Naturally he was extremely upset and his wife was devastated.
It turns out that this particular “psychic” was “projecting”.
Projecting
Projecting refers to any situation where Person A assumes, usually with no
actual evidence, that a situation they have experienced themselves is happening to Person B. This is often an attempt by Person A to normalise something upsetting they have been through and not fully healed from.
In the case of the Psychic in this example, her own son had recently broken up with his wife and now lived separately to her and their 2 children.
The circumstances and events that she “predicted” for Mark were in fact, identical to those which occurred in her son’s case. They had nothing whatsoever to do with Mark’s relationship with his wife.
Years later, Mark and his wife are still going strong and even have a new baby in the family.
Example 2
Another reader told Tracey that her very gentle and loving husband would beat her! Once again, this never came true but it caused her and her husband distress to hear this. It was a very unfair projection to make.
This “psychic” in fact had a history of abusive relationships herself and was again, projecting her past experiences onto her clients’ relationship.
Example 3
Janice was told that she would never find love nor have children. Unfortunately, she believed this for a while and was devastated – all unnecessarily.
As a psychic medium, it is so very important to not project during a reading.
Good Psychics Distinguish between Messages and Opinion
Personally, if I am not completely sure the message is coming from the other side – I just do not say it. And if it is my opinion rather than a psychic message I am about to share, I make that distinction clear!
I have had people come to me for readings needing to clear up messages they received from other psychics that either didn’t feel right or actually caused them to feel distressed and even depressed about their future.
In the case of the Psychic in this example, her own son had recently broken up with his wife and now lived separately to her and their 2 children.
The circumstances and events that she “predicted” for Mark were in fact, identical to those which occurred in her son’s case. They had nothing whatsoever to do with Mark’s relationship with his wife.
Years later, Mark and his wife are still going strong and even have a new baby in the family.
Example 2
Another reader told Tracey that her very gentle and loving husband would beat her! Once again, this never came true but it caused her and her husband distress to hear this. It was a very unfair projection to make.
This “psychic” in fact had a history of abusive relationships herself and was again, projecting her past experiences onto her clients’ relationship.
Example 3
Janice was told that she would never find love nor have children. Unfortunately, she believed this for a while and was devastated – all unnecessarily.
As a psychic medium, it is so very important to not project during a reading.
Good Psychics Distinguish between Messages and Opinion
Personally, if I am not completely sure the message is coming from the other side – I just do not say it. And if it is my opinion rather than a psychic message I am about to share, I make that distinction clear!
I have had people come to me for readings needing to clear up messages they received from other psychics that either didn’t feel right or actually caused them to feel distressed and even depressed about their future.
Some of these messages were the psychic’s projections and sometimes they just saw a “false” psychic, who really had no gift at all!
And it’s important to remember that a psychic with ability can project too.
This can actually be worse than a psychic who just isn’t any good, as they will have probably told you things/messages that were correct, but
And it’s important to remember that a psychic with ability can project too.
This can actually be worse than a psychic who just isn’t any good, as they will have probably told you things/messages that were correct, but
then others didn’t resonate, or just did not come true.
In such a case, you are left worried or doubtful because other things did come true/resonate.
No Psychic Reading is Perfect
Relax and know that most readers make mistakes now and then – you don’t have to fear messages that seem incorrect nor do you have to “throw the baby out with the bath-water” – you can take heart in the good/accurate messages and let go of the incorrect ones/projections. Nobody is perfect!
As I mentioned earlier, the other side would not want you to live in fear – so if you hear something in a reading that does not feel right and causes you distress – chances are very high that it is simply not true.
“The truth has a way of resonating deep within.”
I believe that psychic readings exist to help guide you to make the choices that are for your highest good. I emphasis the word “choices” here as you always have choice!
Many Blessings,
Sarah
Please note – names in this article have been changed to protect the privacy. Of the persons involved.
In such a case, you are left worried or doubtful because other things did come true/resonate.
No Psychic Reading is Perfect
Relax and know that most readers make mistakes now and then – you don’t have to fear messages that seem incorrect nor do you have to “throw the baby out with the bath-water” – you can take heart in the good/accurate messages and let go of the incorrect ones/projections. Nobody is perfect!
As I mentioned earlier, the other side would not want you to live in fear – so if you hear something in a reading that does not feel right and causes you distress – chances are very high that it is simply not true.
“The truth has a way of resonating deep within.”
I believe that psychic readings exist to help guide you to make the choices that are for your highest good. I emphasis the word “choices” here as you always have choice!
Many Blessings,
Sarah
Please note – names in this article have been changed to protect the privacy. Of the persons involved.
Issue #3 – June 2010
Many Blessings, Sarah
Reincarnation
A topic which has many people talking is reincarnation and whether it is real.
There are many opinions on this one; many believers and non-believers. We all have our own belief system.
Next month I am going to discuss the wonderful and interesting world of “reincarnation; does it really happen?”.....
Until next time,
Many Blessings, Sarah
Reincarnation. Is it real?
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“Troubles with Schoolwork”
Congratulations to –
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Anne from
Melbourne, Australia
Anne’s Question: why is my 6 year old having trouble with his writing and reading at school?..i am so worried about him?
Congratulations to –
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Anne from
Melbourne, Australia
Anne’s Question: why is my 6 year old having trouble with his writing and reading at school?..i am so worried about him?
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Hi Anne,
I can feel that you are a very good mother; very active in your son’s life and genuinely concerned for his well-being.
The other side wants you to know that you are a good mother and you are not doing anything wrong – it is not your fault.
They are saying “number one” and “no argument about that!”
The word “father” is coming in as important also.
I feel that you can help your son. You have teaching abilities yourself and can help to fill in the gaps from his schooling.
I don’t feel anything being “wrong” with your son – he actually has a lovely
Hi Anne,
I can feel that you are a very good mother; very active in your son’s life and genuinely concerned for his well-being.
The other side wants you to know that you are a good mother and you are not doing anything wrong – it is not your fault.
They are saying “number one” and “no argument about that!”
The word “father” is coming in as important also.
I feel that you can help your son. You have teaching abilities yourself and can help to fill in the gaps from his schooling.
I don’t feel anything being “wrong” with your son – he actually has a lovely
energy. It is more that he is just very young and feels that other things are more important than learning right now!
Numbers seems significant also – either he is very good at them or he finds them difficult. They do feel significant though.
The other side is telling me that you can turn this around. The connection
Numbers seems significant also – either he is very good at them or he finds them difficult. They do feel significant though.
The other side is telling me that you can turn this around. The connection
and has a lot of energy to burn. He enjoys physical activity.
I also wonder if his teacher is right for him. I feel he does need extra care in a gentle way and that for some reason, the school has not been able to give this to him so far.
There could be a change of school coming next year and I feel if it does happen that it will be a better one.
I hope this has helped you!
All the best,
Many Blessings,
Sarah
I also wonder if his teacher is right for him. I feel he does need extra care in a gentle way and that for some reason, the school has not been able to give this to him so far.
There could be a change of school coming next year and I feel if it does happen that it will be a better one.
I hope this has helped you!
All the best,
Many Blessings,
Sarah
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with his father could be an emotional thing or something inherited in connection to your question about him.
He does need more focus but also needs to be allowed to just “be”.
You are thoughtful but worry too much.
Be careful of bullying at school as while he enjoys school in many ways, he is also sensitive and this would affect his learning greatly. He loves to be active
He does need more focus but also needs to be allowed to just “be”.
You are thoughtful but worry too much.
Be careful of bullying at school as while he enjoys school in many ways, he is also sensitive and this would affect his learning greatly. He loves to be active
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